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We are the Society

ByLata 17.1.2011         Phone:09974336123       Mail Now X   Post Comments

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When a girl is born, the time she grows, every time her mother teaches her, to be a successful Bahu ...she tells her beti, dream big, but till you get married ...Why when we all know if we dream big and efforts to make our dream come true, we can get that ....Before marriage, girls need to learn everything, cause that is imp for her marriage .....what about the dreams she has seen ???????????

Time passes and she gets married and become Bahu, from the day she is born till the day she goes to her husbands home, her mother day by day gives her the same tips ..The tips to be patient, not to mind about any taunt given by the family, cause that time her mother don't want to make her daughter a 'Bad Bahu' of the society and that house is going to be permanent house

Is her mother afraid of the society or the name called Bad Bahu ?

Does our society only consider supposed to be 'good bahus'? why not the shouting, dominating , skilled , dancers, singers........

Because we always want to see the good, the good things like a phrase says (jo dikhta hai wo bikta hai )things which look good costs great...

Why good bahus, who remains silent, goes to Gods place very early.

Why good bahus, look 48 when they are at their early ages.

Is this goodness or the silence which is killing them daily, but they can't take any step because family will not accept that....

Every good or bad bahu always want to do something, but the pressure of being good in society kills their dream ...

We all are daily talking about, the latest news, we pause and again think perhaps we can do something about the society ....

But the question lies how many of us really tried to change our selves first ......

If we want to change the society first we have to change our self because WE ARE THE SOCIETY...........