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Death Rituals
Among the Hindus in Kerala, the practice of the cremation and
preserving the ashes of the deceased in the southern courtyard of the
house within a specially constructed stone plat form was common. The place was
worshipped and a lamp lighted there daily at the onset of the dusk. The space
was concreted around the area and a tulasi plant was grown. The last rites
are performed for the dead person, in a thatched shed constructed in the
courtyard in front of the house. This rites were performed for sixteen
days after death by the descendants of the deceased for his salvation.
This was for the purpose of preventing the dead man's spirit from turning
malicious. They were aimed further at saving the spirit from falling into degeneration.
On the fifth day of cremation, the ashes are collected from the grave and
preserved in the thatched shed in front of the courtyard where sacrificial rites
for the dead person are conducted. When the rites are over the heir
of the deceased remains celibate and observes penance for one full year.
Such year long-penance is known as 'Samavatsara Diksha'.
During this period, he grows his hair and beard, takes
ritual bath every morning, performs
sacrificial rites before taking food and keeps his body and mind clean and
devout. In the performance of the rites he is aided by a priest who tells him the mantras.
It is believed that these rites have the power of
liberating the departed soul from the sinking state and
providing it with sustenance and apparel in its voyage to
the eternal life beyond. Offering of water with sandal paste,
gingly seeds and basil leaves on the bed of durba grass prepared in
front of a lighted bell metal lamp in which the departed soul is supposed
to be dwelling are common part of the rites performed.
Many Hindu religious practices have been adopted by other communities with
the traditionally accepted form of such practices remolded to accommodate their
own concept. The brass lamp (nilavilakku), an inevitable item in every Hindu
ritual. It has been accepted by Christians for their functions. Tying a tali (mangalyasutra),
a piece of gold ornament on the neck of the bride by the bridegroom as one of
the rituals which consummates a marriage. This practice has been accepted by
Christians as an important ritual. It can be seen that the general faith in
astrological calculations based on the influence of planets on human destinies
is shared by all communities.
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