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Women
A hill women's life is extremely busy from early morning to late evening and
sometimes even till late at night. They work side by side with men in
agriculture and their role is as important in the field as at home. Women are
constantly at work, breaking earth, transplanting, weeding, reaping,
pounding or carrying head loads of fodder, firewood, manure, water, grain, flour
and in the building season when men build terrace walls and terrace the
fields, they break earth-clods and excavate stones and carry them.
After house hold chores of looking after the children and cooking, women are
usually away from their homes most of the day collecting grass, leaves or
firewood or tending animals in the forests. On moonlit nights at harvest time
they often work in the fields after meals past midnight. Besides carrying the
produce to her home, she has to spread it for drying on the roof or the yard to
protect it from early decomposition. In horticulture, besides the pruning and
plucking she is also mainly responsible for grading and packing of apples. The
rearing of animals, milking of cows and buffaloes, preparing butter milk and
butter and later ghee are all performed by women. Collection of the dung of
cattle, dumping it and later carrying it to the field to be used as manure is
the woman's job.
Winter and rainy season are a period of inactivity in the fields. But even
then, women spin, weave or knit and m akes mats and baskets. Some even help their
mates in chopping wood. This inequitable division of labour among men and women
is surprising. Probably when agriculture was first started in the hills, man
engaged himself in the more intensive tasks like that of cleaning the fields and
constructing terrace walls. His wife must have assisted him sowing and
harvesting the crop. Later this division of labour became more or less fixed,
even when the work of cleaning and terracing did not engage him to that extent.
Hill women are not inhibited in her work or behaviour. She maintains her
cheerfulness as also her freedom. Though tradition ridden, she has many liberal
ideas of family relationships.
The
married women in the area are fond of dressing up and bedecking
themselves with ornaments of all kinds. The married women braid their hair and
wear numerous pieces of jewellery denoting their married status. They must wear
a ring (koka) in their noses and their clothes are colourful and often trimmed
with Gota (silver or gold edging). They cover their faces in front of the elders
and may not speak directly to older relatives like the father-in-law, the
uncle-in-law or the husband's older brothers. They must not sit on a seat higher
than the one occupied by the elders of the family. Serving the in-laws,
massaging and rubbing them with oil are all parts of her daily routine. If a
women forgoes any of her duties, she is heavily criticized.
The widows life is totally
colourless. She must live like a nun and she
cannot wear colourful clothes or jewellery or participate in the singing and
dancing on feast days and festivals.
The woman in Himachal are bound strictly by traditions. They must not utter
the first name of an older relative but imply it symbolically or by pointing at
an article with a similar name. On feast days and festivals all of them barring
widows dress up in all their finery with colourful skirts and scarves and
waistcoats and rows of jewellery all over their bodies.
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